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Couple Trouble? What's At The Root Of It?

A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure of attending the 50th Anniversary Annual Conference of California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT). Although Marriage and Family Therapists work in many different areas of therapy, the heart of our work centers around relationships. After attending several workshops that dealt specifically with unhealthy family systems (family units), I was reminded of how and why it is so easy for any relationship - especially those of couples - to experience trouble. Although couples can struggle because of serious issues/offenses, chronic stresses, personality conflicts, physical or mental illnesses/disorders, addictions, and/or underlying psychological pathology, for the purposes of this blog, I'm going to address an area of causation not often identified or articulated. Thus, it erodes couples' relationships for months or even years, and frequently leaves them in crisis, with one or both partners contemplatinga way out of the relati…